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I usually try to restrict my posts here to fluffy fandom things, but I feel compelled to do this. I'm angry. I'm disillusioned. And I'm really motivated to do anything I can to get W out of the White House.

I know there are people on my f-list who are Republicans, and who support Bush. If you like, you can skip the stuff behind the cut. ;-)



I was raised as a Republican. I was also raised as a Southern Baptist, and I think part of my issue with the Republican party is its alignment with the religious right.

I'm an atheist, but I'm pretty quiet about it. In general, I don't like it when anyone pushes their religion in my face, and most people don't, to be fair. One of my best friends is a minister, so I don't have a problem with people being religious. I think my big problem with the religious right is their assumption that it's perfectly fine for an entire country's laws to be based on their religion's holy book. I'm tired of being forced to pray at public functions (including the state Democratic convention, where I was a delegate), and I'm sick of the continued attempts to oppress people who are gay, bisexual, or transgendered. I'm pro-choice, I support gay rights, and am deeply offended that anyone would use the Bible to justify discrimination against any group of people in the form of controlling their bodies. (I know many Christians who agree with that sentiment, of course.)

I also have major issues with the war in Iraq, and Bush's horrid ignorance of the world outside our borders. It makes me sick to my stomach that my government has kept hundreds of people locked up in an internment camp in Cuba for two years, without charging them for any crimes or allowing them any defense. Geneva Convention? What Geneva Convention? It doesn't apply to us, you know. (And I don't count this latest attempt to satisfy a Supreme Court ruling, thank you very much. That's a farce, IMO.) It's un-American, and if any other country in the world did that, we'd probably invade them. We're holding these people based on what, our intelligence? The same intelligence that told us there were WMDs in Iraq? Yeah, I trust them.

Another part of my reluctance to support Republicans comes from my up-bringing, again. I grew up in the south, and many of my family members are Republicans because they see the Democratic party as belonging to African Americans and other minority groups they view with suspicion. In my family, being a Republican is definitely associated with being racist. I realize that represents a small minority of Republicans, but I can't separate my family's small-mindedness and racism from the issues they talk about. For example, they're against welfare and other public aid because of the stereotype of an unemployed black woman with eight children getting a monthly check. Telling them that welfare accounts for a miniscule portion of the budget in comparison to social security doesn't seem to make a difference. None of them have ever been on welfare. Those people are just lazy, they say. This is America, after all. The land of opportunity! You just have to work hard enough!

Of course, my own stories about working with battered women and teaching in gang-infested urban schools don't garner any sympathy for people who don't have the same opportunities as middle class folks. My family doesn't have any concept of the playing field not being level, because they won't even drive on that side of town for fear of being mugged. They just believe the stereotypes, and don't bother thinking for themselves.

I'm a big supporter of many causes the Democratic party traditionally champions, even though I disagree on free trade. (I think globalization is inevitable, and we'd best find a way to deal with it.) I'm all for tax cuts, as long as they go to the middle classes, where the people are actually likely to spend the money and contribute to the economy. (I'm a little tired watching people get trickled down on.) And as long as children don't go without free lunches or after-school programs as a result, or firefighters don't lose their health care, or senior citizens don't lose their access to medication. I'm more than willing to pay my share of taxes to help people who need it. I don't like my money going to support an invasion of a country based on a lie, so I totally understand where they're coming from. I just think they're wrong! ;-)

So I'm not a Republican for all of those reasons, and I hate W for others I won't bother detailing here. Mostly, I'm tired of being ashamed of the actions of my country. I really want to fly the flag outside my house again without feeling like I'm a hypocrite.



So that was more than you wanted to know, I'm sure! I do wonder about slashers who are Republicans, though. I mean, this president just tried to amend the Constitution to discriminate against gay people! How do you reconcile the anti-gay and anti-"porn" rhetoric of the party with participating in an internet community that embraces gay rights, women's rights, and free speech?

I really want to know, so please comment here. I'd love to have a thoughtful and reasonable discussion of this topic.

Date: 2004-08-06 12:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jane-sehrn-ta.livejournal.com
Kudos to you, Emma.

I can say that I pretty much agree with everything you've said. And as a very happily married *Canadian* lesbian, I say thank goodness that I don't have to live in a place where I would be categorized as some hell-bound hedonist. I had a few years experience of Baptist Sunday School during my early years (4-7), which was quite enough, and I have lived with the guilt all my life. Ironically it is throgh discovering slash and finding so many like-minded people out here that I am starting to heal myself of the guilt of being who I am. As an abuse survivor, slash has become a way to take back my sexual power. Who I am is so far removed from what I am presumed to be as a lesbian. I am a mum, loving, nurturing, supportive to my wife and step-daughters, who I see as my own true daughters also. Unfortunately, due to my background, an active sexual life is near impossible, but to those gay, bisexuals and transgendered folk who do lead one - I say good for you. Sex is a private thing behind closed doors. And when it comes down to it, no government has a right to legislate against LOVE. GO CANADA! :)

As someone who has suffered through numerous physical and mental ailments for some 16 years (nearly half my life), for example, an autoimmune disease through which I appear utterly normal on the outside, I am used to all sorts of prejudice, and a lot of it is from my family. I was born in Britain and instilled with a work ethic that says that if you look OK, then you must WORK, otherwise you are a slacker.

Although I have very limited energy, whenever I can I try to raise awareness of those so-called minority groups, those who are differently abled, those whose love lies outside the norm, indeed, those who believe they will never fit in to society's concept of normal.

So I say bravo, Emma, and woe betide the world if Bush gets back in. I have to thank the Force that I and my soulmate live in Canada. Maybe if you all emigrate to Canada, Bush will get the message ;).

Just my two cents,
Jane

P.S. By the way, I agree with Emilia-Wan on the praying bit. Whatever the case may be, as an empathic soul I just put my head down and send love and light to those who really need it. I did go through a brief period of atheism in my life - I wonder if the strength of your atheism is proportional to the length of time spent in a Baptist upbringing. I mean no disrespect to Baptists. I just wouldn't have chosen to scar a kid the way I was.

Date: 2004-08-07 01:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emmagrant01.livejournal.com
Thanks for sharing your story! It's very interesting to me to hear people's varied experiences and beliefs.

I wonder if the strength of your atheism is proportional to the length of time spent in a Baptist upbringing.

Oh, I'm positive it is! I've often thought that if I'd grown up Presbyterian, or something, I'd probably still be religious. At least, perhaps agnostic! ;-)

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