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A question about sex... scenes
Mar. 7th, 2005 08:27 pmWhat makes a sex scene hot?
No, seriously -- I want to know. I have a feeling that it's different for everyone.
For me, it's about realism, mostly. I don't like over-the-top fantasy-perfect sex. Cause you know, it just makes me wonder if I don't have such good sex. It makes me question my own sex life, and that is SO not fun. I'm pretty sure I have a pretty decent sex life, actually, and I get turned on by sex scenes that remind me of the sex I had the other night. Maybe one of us wasn't in the mood and had to be convinced. Maybe it took a little longer for me to come and he had to pull out a special "trick" to get the job done. Maybe he made that weird noise, the one he doesn't always make unless it's really good. And so on -- you get the picture.
My point is that for me, hot sex scenes are ones that seem real: real people, real sex, real humorous mishaps, real failures, real orgasms.
So what does it for you?
No, seriously -- I want to know. I have a feeling that it's different for everyone.
For me, it's about realism, mostly. I don't like over-the-top fantasy-perfect sex. Cause you know, it just makes me wonder if I don't have such good sex. It makes me question my own sex life, and that is SO not fun. I'm pretty sure I have a pretty decent sex life, actually, and I get turned on by sex scenes that remind me of the sex I had the other night. Maybe one of us wasn't in the mood and had to be convinced. Maybe it took a little longer for me to come and he had to pull out a special "trick" to get the job done. Maybe he made that weird noise, the one he doesn't always make unless it's really good. And so on -- you get the picture.
My point is that for me, hot sex scenes are ones that seem real: real people, real sex, real humorous mishaps, real failures, real orgasms.
So what does it for you?
