If I ever became a fanfic writer, which I won't, I'd use both the terms: "rape" and "non-con" to mean different things. While rape means rape, "non-con" (as fanfiction seems to employ it) is about gratification since it's been used so much to describe "fantasy rape" or "mock rape."
i.e.
Warnings: Rape
The horror!
Warnings: Non-con
Ohhh-ahh, the horror, oh yes, give it to me hard horror, I don't want it, yes!
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Date: 2006-09-20 11:03 pm (UTC)i.e.
Warnings: Rape
The horror!
Warnings: Non-con
Ohhh-ahh, the horror, oh yes, give it to me hard horror, I don't want it, yes!